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How to Deal with a Twin Flame Partner with Anxious Attachment or Anxious Tendencies

J.N. Estey
4 min readJul 9, 2024

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Understanding Anxious Attachment

Anxious attachment is a style characterized by a deep fear of abandonment and a strong desire for closeness and reassurance.

Individuals with this attachment style often worry about their partner’s love and commitment, leading to behaviors that can be perceived as clingy or overly dependent.

They may constantly seek validation and fear rejection, which can create tension in the relationship.

Recognize the Signs

To best support your anxious partner, it is important to recognize the signs of anxious attachment, which might include:

  • Constant need for reassurance and validation.
  • Overthinking and anxiety about the relationship’s stability.
  • Fear of being abandoned or rejected.
  • Clinginess and difficulty being alone.
  • Emotional volatility and heightened sensitivity to perceived slights.

Understanding these behaviors can help you approach the situation with greater empathy and patience.

Communicate Reassurance and Love

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J.N. Estey
J.N. Estey

Written by J.N. Estey

Writer. MSW. Columbia '21. “Creatio ex Nihilo: Poems and Stories about Depression, Survival, and the Resurgence of Hope” by J.N. Estey available on Amazon 💗

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