What’s the Difference Between the Inconsistent Behavior of a False Twin Flame and the Push Pull Dynamic of a True Twin Flame?

J.N. Estey
3 min readJul 30, 2024
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The twin flame journey is characterized by profound personal growth, healing, and a deep emotional connection. However, not every intense relationship is a true twin flame connection.

One way to differentiate between a significant relationship and a true twin flame connection is by examining the other person’s behavior, specifically the differences between the inconsistent behavior of a false twin flame and the push-pull dynamic of a true twin flame.

Inconsistent Behavior of a False Twin Flame

Definition and Characteristics:

Inconsistent behavior refers to erratic and unpredictable actions that lack a clear pattern or reason. In the context of a false twin flame, this inconsistency often manifests as frequent shifts between affection and withdrawal, leaving the other partner confused and emotionally unstable.

Key Features:

  • Erratic Patterns: The behavior of a false twin flame can be unpredictable, with no consistent explanation for their actions. One moment, they may be deeply affectionate, and the next, they may withdraw without warning.

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J.N. Estey

Writer. MSW. Columbia '21. “Creatio ex Nihilo: Poems and Stories about Depression, Survival, and the Resurgence of Hope” by J.N. Estey available on Amazon 💗